your man isnt into yours anymore

He used to call and text you continually. Now he very rarely rings you. When you call him all you ever get is an answer-machine and he very rarely returns your calls. If you text him it is unlikely that he will answer. Basically because he isn't into you anymore, communication with you is no longer a priority. He probably has somebody else on the agenda who he now makes frequent calls to. If you are with him when his phone rings, he will be unlikely to take it in your presence. He keeps barriers of privacy now that he didn't have before.

Whereas he used to snatch 5 minutes in his lunch break just to talk to you, now he makes out he is too busy to see you. He seems to have to work a lot, even at weekends.

If you live with your man, you will notice that he avoids all intimacy with you. If you sit in the same room as him it is unlikely that he will want to talk to you. He is more likely to watch TV or play on his computer than pay attention to you. He no longer has the interest in you, so he just does not want to expend any effort in your direction.

You will no longer receive gifts or presents, as in the old days. Though if your guy is in a new relationship with somebody else, he might at first buy you guilt gifts.

Again your sex-life will be follow the same pattern. He shows no real interest in you. But if he has just met someone new he might still try to carry on the relationship with you to get the best of both worlds. However, he will not feel like the same person. You will notice a lack of warmth and intimacy.

Your man will no longer make any plans for your future together. You will very rarely eat out. He will not book any holidays or trips for you to both go on. He no longer invests in you for the future and doesn't want to spend any money on you. If his mates call however, he will reserve time for them. He might even decide to go on an all-male holiday break leaving you behind, when this hasn't been a pattern before.

He will make excuses to generate rows so that he can storm out to work,or to his new lover, so that he doesn't have to be with you. He will not be bothered about leaving you upset on your own. Basically he doesn't love you anymore so why should he bother if you weep buckets when he upsets you.

His friends will seem awkward in your presence as they will know more about him than you. They will know if he's about to finish the relationship or if he has anybody else now.

Basically, if your man is no longer into you, you will know. The relationship feels cold. But if he is maintaining a relationship with somebody else as well as you, you may receive confusing signals based on his cheating behavior, but that is another story.